{"id":16122,"date":"2023-05-03T15:27:25","date_gmt":"2023-05-03T05:27:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/?p=16122"},"modified":"2025-04-23T14:42:30","modified_gmt":"2025-04-23T04:42:30","slug":"attitudes-to-domestic-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/attitudes-to-domestic-violence\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf \u00dac"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"16122\" class=\"elementor elementor-16122\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2166895b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2166895b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6126b7a6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6126b7a6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m xa v\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t qu\u1ef7 quy\u1ec7t v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u trong t\u1ea7m m\u1eaft \u2013 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m xung quanh ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a68586b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3a68586b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>T\u1ea1i \u00dac, d\u1eef li\u1ec7u t\u1eeb C\u1ee5c Th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea \u00dac cho th\u1ea5y <a href=\"https:\/\/www.abs.gov.au\/statistics\/people\/crime-and-justice\/personal-safety-australia\/latest-release\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">m\u1ed9t trong b\u1ed1n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m<\/a> b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y; c\u1ee9 s\u00e1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c t\u1eeb n\u0103m 15 tu\u1ed5i; V\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aihw.gov.au\/reports-data\/behaviours-risk-factors\/domestic-violence\/overview\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">m\u1ed9t trong 16 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng<\/a> \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi chung s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c th\u00e2n m\u1eadt l\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e1ng b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u1eeb <a href=\"https:\/\/ncas.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u0103m 2021<\/a> cho th\u1ea5y:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>37% c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn gi\u00e0nh quy\u1ec1n nu\u00f4i con th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecba \u0111\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00e1c c\u00e1o bu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/li>\n<li>34% tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c c\u00e1o bu\u1ed9c t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ctr\u1ea3 \u0111\u0169a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng\u201d.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>10% ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/li>\n<li>23% nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea li\u00ean quan n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/ncas.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi<\/a> s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1dbd590e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1dbd590e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60c0156b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"60c0156b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38e762ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"38e762ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn xung quanh c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng - v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/types-of-domestic-violence\/\">b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a> c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t sau n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin sai l\u1ec7ch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i xem x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m xung quanh b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u2013 b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n hay th\u1ee7 ph\u1ea1m. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c tranh to\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-22249dde elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"22249dde\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m #1: \u201cCh\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u00fang tay v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng - \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 - nh\u01b0ng, khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng, vi\u1ec7c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i \u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e99b396 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e99b396\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m #2: \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n-ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ef1 k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u2013 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi r\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra khi h\u1ecd r\u1eddi \u0111i. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n khi c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb em tham gia, v\u00ec th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m xa c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i cao nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, trung b\u00ecnh, <a href=\"https:\/\/au.finance.yahoo.com\/news\/30-attempts-domestic-violence-relationship-201141802.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a>. K\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf \u0111i.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ec5048c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ec5048c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m #3: \u201cCh\u1eafc h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 r\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ecda v\u00e0o th\u00e2n.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tai h\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n-nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t sau khi b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng &#039;k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng&#039; nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u tranh c\u00e3i \u2013 v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u2013 nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn thu\u1eadt b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd v\u00e0 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9b0de71 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9b0de71\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m #4: \u201cN\u1ebfu h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i gi\u00fap th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd r\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00ec r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c nhau. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, lo l\u1eafng r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng (\u0111\u00f4i khi v\u00ec l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng) ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Chia s\u1ebb chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nguy hi\u1ec3m ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p n\u00e0o trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n-ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng - ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ecf qua.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-76d1606 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"76d1606\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m #5: \u201cAnh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t; T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cb\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra sau c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn\u201d \u0111\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1ng b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i \u0111\u00f4i khi r\u1ea5t kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 m\u1ebfn, gi\u00fap h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 che \u0111\u1eady ho\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7n minh cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, &#039;ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng&#039; n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u - v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n-nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau; ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nguy hi\u1ec3m ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59c72f7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"59c72f7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m #6: \u201cNh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t y\u00eau nhau.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u2013 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 &#039;kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian vui v\u1ebb&#039;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/warning-signs-of-domestic-violence\/\">B\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng di\u1ec5n ra theo chu k\u1ef3 ho\u1eb7c khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu<\/a> \u2013 chuy\u1ec3n qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, giai \u0111o\u1ea1n l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c &#039;tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt&#039;, k\u1ebb b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00ec h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xin l\u1ed7i r\u1ed1i r\u00edt, h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u2013 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi chuy\u1ec3n sang giai \u0111o\u1ea1n &#039;b\u00ecnh l\u1eb7ng&#039;, khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u00ecn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. V\u00e0 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-588646f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"588646f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>T\u1ea1i sao th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng?<\/h2>\n<p>B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00f4ng tin sai s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n-nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, coi tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng gian c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai n\u00ean \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho th\u1ea5y ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nam gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch. <a href=\"https:\/\/mensline.org.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mensline<\/a> s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/male-experiencing-domestic-violence\/\">c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.1800respect.org.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1800T\u00d4N TR\u1eccNG<\/a>\u00a0(1800 737 732). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00ed m\u1eadt tr\u00ean to\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8ebd715 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8ebd715\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b477099 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"b477099\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b6cf857 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b6cf857\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 Australia NSW cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/?focus=domestic-violence\">c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a>, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/taking-responsibility-mens-behaviour-change\/\">C\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh nh\u00f3m Thay \u0111\u1ed5i H\u00e0nh vi Nam gi\u1edbi<\/a>, mang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 chu k\u1ef3 h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho th\u1ea5y ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn l\u1edbn ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng 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