{"id":25504,"date":"2026-01-01T17:32:28","date_gmt":"2026-01-01T06:32:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/?p=25504"},"modified":"2026-01-19T13:46:26","modified_gmt":"2026-01-19T02:46:26","slug":"conflict-resolution-mistakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/conflict-resolution-mistakes\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e1u Sai l\u1ea7m Th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p khi M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft Xung \u0111\u1ed9t"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"25504\" class=\"elementor elementor-25504\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ed6f7b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"4ed6f7b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-190ed66f elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"190ed66f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/HJX-zVpURJ4&quot;,&quot;show_image_overlay&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;image_overlay&quot;:{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/11\\\/Conflict-habits.png&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:29761,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;source&quot;:&quot;library&quot;},&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-custom-embed-image-overlay\" style=\"background-image: url(https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Conflict-habits.png);\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-custom-embed-play\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"\u0a35\u0a40\u0a21\u0a40\u0a13 \u0a1a\u0a32\u0a3e\u0a13\" tabindex=\"0\" data-no-translation-aria-label=\"\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"eicon-play\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43a6885 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"43a6885\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a0cd3f elementor-widget elementor-widget-Elem_Block_Author\" data-id=\"9a0cd3f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"Elem_Block_Author.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t            <div id=\"elem-custom-author-6a2eb558e6721\" class=\"elem-custom-author\">\n                <div class=\"container\">\n                    <div class=\"row\">\n                        <div class=\"custom-author\">\n                                                            <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Tulsi-van-de-Graaff-headshot-square.png\" alt=\"Tulsi van de Graaff\">\n                                   \n                            <h5>Tulsi van de Graaff<\/h5>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n            <style>\n                .custom-author {\n                    display: flex;\n                    height: auto;\n                    align-items: center;\n                }\n                .custom-author img {\n                    width: 50px;\n                    height: 50px;\n                    border-radius: 50%;\n                    margin-right: 5px;\n                }\n                .custom-author h5 {\n                    font-size: 21px;\n                    font-weight: normal;\n                    margin-left: 0px;\n                    margin-right: 5px;\n                }\n                \/* Larger Screens - 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Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta ra ngo\u00e0i ph\u1ea1m vi th\u00edch h\u1ee3p <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/how-to-set-healthy-boundaries\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ranh gi\u1edbi<\/a> v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tham gia qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/managers-accidental-counsellors\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c<\/a>.<\/p><p>Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/guide-to-family-dispute-resolution\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung gian<\/a>, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/how-soft-start-ups-improve-relationship-communication\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd giao ti\u1ebfp<\/a> v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Khi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sai l\u1ea7m ch\u00ednh m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o s\u00e1u lo\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda v\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin.<\/p><p>Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef, c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang nghe ho\u1eb7c tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t.<\/p><h2>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7: \u201cCh\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y\u201d<\/h2><p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111i qua l\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 xung quanh!<\/p><p>Trong khi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 tham gia v\u00e0 d\u00ednh l\u00edu v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd.<\/p><p>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00ec h\u1ecd qu\u00e1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p><p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7:<\/strong> T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ranh gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00ean h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 hay kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean r\u00fat lui. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u2013 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao quy\u1ec1n cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fab6faf elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"fab6faf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/watch?v=wVbsZ37PDqM&amp;t=3s&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3dad56d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3dad56d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa: \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n\u201d<\/h2><p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u201cgi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft\u201d xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, v\u00e0 d\u1eadp t\u1eaft ho\u1eb7c lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0o chia s\u1ebb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 suy ng\u1eabm, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p nhanh ch\u00f3ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m.<\/p><p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Fixer:<\/strong> H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng. C\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u2013 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n.<\/p><h2>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9: \u201cC\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111i \u2013 T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft\u201d<\/h2><p>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00edt tham gia. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e9p m\u00ecnh, r\u00fat lui v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, v\u00ec s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u1edf n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c.<\/p><p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh:<\/strong> H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u: n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i k\u00ecm n\u00e9n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. \u0110\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n khi chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady. S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch n\u1ebfu chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p><h2>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh: \u201cCh\u00fang ta h\u00e3y t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi nhau\u201d<\/h2><p>T\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, chu \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 chu \u0111\u00e1o, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh tr\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong ph\u00f2ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. H\u1ecd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 &quot;h\u00e3y t\u00edch c\u1ef1c&quot; v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c &quot;t\u00edch c\u1ef1c&quot;.<\/p><p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh:<\/strong> L\u01b0u \u00fd s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1eefu \u00edch. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u2013 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u1eef h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f4i khi nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-580fd7e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"580fd7e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/men-working-on-laptop-at-table-1024x683.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-25509\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/men-working-on-laptop-at-table-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/men-working-on-laptop-at-table-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/men-working-on-laptop-at-table-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/men-working-on-laptop-at-table-18x12.png 18w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/men-working-on-laptop-at-table.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-130c887 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"130c887\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda: \u201cTh\u1eadt kinh kh\u1ee7ng!\u201d<\/h2><p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng coi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ho\u1eb7c xung \u0111\u1ed9t, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a n\u00e0o. Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 &quot;v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1&quot; m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda, c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean trong ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh h\u1ecd \u0111ang xung \u0111\u1ed9t.<\/p><p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda:<\/strong> Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ec7 th\u1ea7n kinh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 thi\u1ec1n, th\u1edf ch\u1eadm, t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng. C\u00e2n nh\u1eafc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p.<\/p><h2>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin: \u201cB\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft tin t\u1ee9c m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1\u2026.?\u201d<\/h2><p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd coi tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 &quot;chuy\u00ean gia&quot; khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 tham gia kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c chi ti\u1ebft. Do \u0111\u00f3, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p quan \u0111i\u1ec3m &quot;chuy\u00ean gia&quot; c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh.<\/p><p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin:<\/strong> H\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n tham gia v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t n\u00e0o. L\u01b0u \u00fd xem \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng, so v\u1edbi khi \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eb1m n\u00e2ng cao v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang cung c\u1ea5p h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 trong ph\u1ea1m vi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p><p>Trong khi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng.<\/p><p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao Relationships Australia NSW \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">H\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd<\/a> \u2013 trao quy\u1ec1n cho n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang leo thang v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tham gia ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o n\u00e0y cho c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c tr\u00ean to\u00e0n ti\u1ec3u bang \u0111ang t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><em>Tulsi van de Graaff l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c44d0e9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c44d0e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-40456e8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"40456e8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8049901 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8049901\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd<\/a> ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho nh\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00eam v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u2013 h\u00e3y g\u1ecdi cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i theo s\u1ed1 1300 364 277.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-667a6621 related-blog-single e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"667a6621\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-148f69d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"148f69d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">D\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 &amp; H\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o li\u00ean quan<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72df65de elementor-widget elementor-widget-Elem_Articles_Grid\" data-id=\"72df65de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"Elem_Articles_Grid.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t    <div id=\"elem-articles-grid-6a2eb5590e9f6\" class=\"elem-articles-grid\">\n      \n      <div class=\"elem-articles-grid__posts elem-articles-grid__posts--cpt-service alm-button-style--light\">\n        <div class=\"container\">\n          <div id=\"ajax-load-more\" class=\"ajax-load-more-wrap white\" data-id=\"elem-articles-grid-6a2eb5590e9f6\" data-alm-id=\"\" data-canonical-url=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/conflict-resolution-mistakes\/\" data-slug=\"conflict-resolution-mistakes\" data-post-id=\"25504\"  data-localized=\"ajax_load_more_elem_articles_grid_6a2eb5590e9f6_vars\" data-alm-object=\"ajax_load_more_elem_articles_grid_6a2eb5590e9f6\"><div aria-live=\"polite\" aria-atomic=\"true\" class=\"alm-listing alm-ajax row row-cols-1 row-cols-lg-3\" data-preloaded=\"true\" data-preloaded-amount=\"3\" data-container-type=\"div\" data-loading-style=\"white\" data-archive=\"true\" data-repeater=\"default\" data-post-type=\"post,cpt-workshop,cpt-service,cpt-training\" data-post-in=\"3500,9652,23056\" data-post-not-in=\"24218,23787\" data-vars=\"layout:default\" data-order=\"DESC\" data-orderby=\"date\" data-offset=\"0\" data-posts-per-page=\"6\" data-scroll=\"false\" data-pause=\"true\" data-button-label=\"Load More\" data-prev-button-label=\"Load Previous\" data-images-loaded=\"true\">        <div class=\"col mb-3 mb-lg-4 mb-xxl-5\" data-index=\"1\">\n            <div class=\"comp-blog-card comp-blog-card--default wow fadeIn\" data-wow-delay=\"0s\">\n    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\" class=\"comp-blog-card__img\">\n      <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img-fluid\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Accidental-Mediator-Training-RelationshipsAustraliaNSW-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"Accidental Mediator\">\n    <\/a>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__content balance-elements\">\n      \n      <h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\">Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd<\/a><\/h4>\n\n              <div class=\"d-none d-lg-block\">\n          <p>Accidental Mediator l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o cung c\u1ea5p cho nh\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n        <\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__link\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\"     class=\"comp-button comp-button--default\"\n     tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"       >\n    Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1  <\/a>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n                <div class=\"col mb-3 mb-lg-4 mb-xxl-5\" data-index=\"2\">\n            <div class=\"comp-blog-card comp-blog-card--default wow fadeIn\" data-wow-delay=\"0.2s\">\n    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-counsellor\/\" class=\"comp-blog-card__img\">\n      <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img-fluid\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/RANSW_PT-ACCIDENTAL-COUNSELLOR-768x543.jpg\" alt=\"Accidental Counsellor\">\n    <\/a>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__content balance-elements\">\n      \n      <h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-counsellor\/\">c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh c\u1edd<\/a><\/h4>\n\n              <div class=\"d-none d-lg-block\">\n          <p>C\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n t\u00ecnh c\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o nh\u1eb1m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u201ct\u00ecnh c\u1edd\u201d. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 g\u1eb7p n\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c g\u1eb7p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng.<\/p>\n        <\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__link\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-counsellor\/\"     class=\"comp-button comp-button--default\"\n     tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"       >\n    Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1  <\/a>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n                <div class=\"col mb-3 mb-lg-4 mb-xxl-5\" data-index=\"3\">\n            <div class=\"comp-blog-card comp-blog-card--default wow fadeIn\" data-wow-delay=\"0.4s\">\n    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\" class=\"comp-blog-card__img\">\n      <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img-fluid\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Mediation-webpage-header-768x512.png\" alt=\"Family Dispute Resolution and Mediation\">\n    <\/a>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__content balance-elements\">\n              <p class=\"tag-line\">h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i<span class=\"d-inline-block mx-2\">.<\/span>c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<span class=\"d-inline-block mx-2\">.<\/span>Ly h\u00f4n + Ly th\u00e2n<\/p>\n      \n      <h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\">Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 H\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i Tranh ch\u1ea5p Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a><\/h4>\n\n              <div class=\"d-none d-lg-block\">\n          <p>Tr\u1ea3i qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ly th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ly h\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cung c\u1ea5p d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft Tranh ch\u1ea5p Gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng, c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp NSW.<\/p>\n        <\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__link\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\"     class=\"comp-button comp-button--default\"\n     tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"       >\n    Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1  <\/a>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n        <\/div><div class=\"alm-btn-wrap\" data-rel=\"ajax-load-more\"><button class=\"alm-load-more-btn\" type=\"button\">T\u1ea3i th\u00eam<\/button><\/div><div class=\"alm-no-results\" style=\"display: none;\">C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. H\u00e3y th\u1eed s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u00ednh n\u0103ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c t\u00f9y ch\u1ecdn b\u1ed9 l\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/div><\/div>\n                  <\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n                <\/div>\n    \t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n lao v\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh v\u00ec tr\u00e1nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":25505,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","category-video","relationship-individuals","focus-communication","focus-conflict","focus-work-money"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25504"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25504\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29945,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25504\/revisions\/29945"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25505"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}