{"id":26176,"date":"2025-03-26T11:00:11","date_gmt":"2025-03-26T00:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/?p=26176"},"modified":"2025-04-02T14:10:36","modified_gmt":"2025-04-02T03:10:36","slug":"arguing-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/arguing-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n tranh lu\u1eadn trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"26176\" class=\"elementor elementor-26176\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7de8982e e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7de8982e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2bd5505e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2bd5505e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>S\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh trong giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u00fang\u201d v\u00e0 \u201csai\u201d, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ck\u1ebb thua cu\u1ed9c\u201d.\u00a0<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a832847 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a832847\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Sau m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 &quot;Ai th\u1eafng?&quot; Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta quay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi Hy L\u1ea1p c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i, di\u1ec5n ng\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ch\u00e2n l\u00fd. Vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea1ch tr\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu trong l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 tinh ch\u1ec9nh n\u00f3, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1c b\u1ecf n\u00f3. C\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i trong nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00e2y chia r\u1ebd.<\/p><p>Ng\u00e0y nay, xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Thay v\u00ec cho ph\u00e9p s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1edf l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/become-more-empathetic-relationships\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/a>, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i. Thay v\u00ec tinh ch\u1ec9nh s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n coi n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/social-media-safety-for-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/a> gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc loa c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p><p>H\u00e3y trung th\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129? V\u00e0 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i \u0111\u0103ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u0103ng <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/difficult-family-conversations\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/a> \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a? Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xoay chuy\u1ec3n, chu k\u1ef3 tin t\u1ee9c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau, kh\u00f4ng ai quan t\u00e2m. V\u1eady th\u00ec sao? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?<\/p><p>C\u00e1ch nhanh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u00e0 trao cho ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i ai \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3i. Hi\u1ebfm khi, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3, chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng trong giao ti\u1ebfp d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt:<\/p><p><em>Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1eafng trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn.<\/em><\/p><p>Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn, m\u1ed9t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/having-difficult-conversations\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i<\/a>, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 x\u00edch m\u00edch nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 &quot;chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng&quot;. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 <em>th\u00e1o g\u1ee1<\/em>. B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f2n b\u1ecf ng\u1ecf cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y n\u00fat th\u1eaft.<\/p><p>Vi\u1ec7c th\u00e1o g\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y \u0111an ch\u00e9o c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian, c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, c\u1ea7n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong giao ti\u1ebfp th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n: m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6986bab elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"6986bab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/watch?v=Ufyuo6s9LLs&amp;t=1s&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3057eb00 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3057eb00\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Trong m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi ai \u0111\u00f3 - d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia - g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 n\u00f3i g\u00ec. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m; m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed7i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u1eaft x\u00e9n, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb1ng sau, m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f3c t\u00e1ch t\u1eebng l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ho\u1eb7c hy v\u1ecdng \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i giao ti\u1ebfp th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p><p>B\u1edfi v\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tranh lu\u1eadn. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn qua l\u1ed7 kh\u00f3a v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd, chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n.<\/p><h2>Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn<\/h2><p>H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00f9i m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong giao ti\u1ebfp, nh\u01b0 trong b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 tranh lu\u1eadn, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. Ch\u00fang d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00ec ch\u00fang cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n, cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa th\u00eam c\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang, xung \u0111\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c cho s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn n\u00f3.<\/p><p>Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn xung \u0111\u1ed9t?<\/p><p>Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, vi\u1ec7c h\u00e9t l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c &quot;Kh\u00f4ng!&quot; ho\u1eb7c d\u1ed9i bom ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng &quot;T\u1ea1i sao?&quot; l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Khi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u1ecb tr\u00ed v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ngo\u00e0i gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p><p>Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u00edt li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u00e0 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u0103ng l\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, tin t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u.<\/p><p>B\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u01a1n. Khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft\u2014nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng theo b\u1ea1n khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean.<\/p><p>H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i tranh lu\u1eadn hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i?<\/p><p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-70b862c elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"70b862c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/two-people-sitting-on-a-couch-not-talking-1024x683.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-26183\" alt=\"two people sitting on a couch not talking\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/two-people-sitting-on-a-couch-not-talking-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/two-people-sitting-on-a-couch-not-talking-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/two-people-sitting-on-a-couch-not-talking-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/two-people-sitting-on-a-couch-not-talking-18x12.png 18w, https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/two-people-sitting-on-a-couch-not-talking.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\"><\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e91399 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3e91399\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>N\u1ebfu la h\u00e9t v\u00e0 hung h\u0103ng l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn l\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ngh\u0129 g\u00ec, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c lao \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o tranh c\u00e3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/p><p>Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t xung quanh m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 khi ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i l\u00e0m b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u2014k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9ng tay ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh l\u1eafm. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, li\u1ec7u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng?<\/p><p>N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y.<\/p><p>\u0110\u1eebng coi tranh lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eafng m\u00e0 h\u00e3y coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea9n sau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra m\u00e0 h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn.<\/p><p>X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ednh k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n.<\/p><p>Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p><p><strong>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00edch \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda c\u1ee7a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.penguin.com.au\/books\/the-next-conversation-9780241719886\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfp theo<\/em><\/a> c\u1ee7a Jefferson Fisher (Penguin Random House, RRP $36.99). <\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c44d0e9 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c44d0e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-40456e8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"40456e8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8049901 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8049901\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u00fap c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1edfi m\u1edf, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/counselling\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n<\/a> v\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i<\/a> d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd<\/a> ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-667a6621 related-blog-single e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"667a6621\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" 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data-orderby=\"date\" data-offset=\"0\" data-posts-per-page=\"6\" data-scroll=\"false\" data-pause=\"true\" data-button-label=\"Load More\" data-prev-button-label=\"Load Previous\" data-images-loaded=\"true\">        <div class=\"col mb-3 mb-lg-4 mb-xxl-5\" data-index=\"1\">\n            <div class=\"comp-blog-card comp-blog-card--default wow fadeIn\" data-wow-delay=\"0s\">\n    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\" class=\"comp-blog-card__img\">\n      <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img-fluid\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Accidental-Mediator-Training-RelationshipsAustraliaNSW-768x513.jpg\" alt=\"Accidental Mediator\">\n    <\/a>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__content balance-elements\">\n      \n      <h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\">Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd<\/a><\/h4>\n\n              <div class=\"d-none d-lg-block\">\n          <p>Accidental Mediator l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o cung c\u1ea5p cho nh\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n        <\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__link\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/professional-training\/accidental-mediator\/\"     class=\"comp-button comp-button--default\"\n     tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"       >\n    Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1  <\/a>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n                <div class=\"col mb-3 mb-lg-4 mb-xxl-5\" data-index=\"2\">\n            <div class=\"comp-blog-card comp-blog-card--default wow fadeIn\" data-wow-delay=\"0.2s\">\n    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\" class=\"comp-blog-card__img\">\n      <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img-fluid\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Mediation-webpage-header-768x512.png\" alt=\"Family Dispute Resolution and Mediation\">\n    <\/a>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__content balance-elements\">\n              <p class=\"tag-line\">h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i<span class=\"d-inline-block mx-2\">.<\/span>c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<span class=\"d-inline-block mx-2\">.<\/span>Ly h\u00f4n + Ly th\u00e2n<\/p>\n      \n      <h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\">Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 H\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i Tranh ch\u1ea5p Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a><\/h4>\n\n              <div class=\"d-none d-lg-block\">\n          <p>Tr\u1ea3i qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ly th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ly h\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cung c\u1ea5p d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft Tranh ch\u1ea5p Gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng, c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp NSW.<\/p>\n        <\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__link\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/family-dispute-resolution-mediation\/\"     class=\"comp-button comp-button--default\"\n     tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"       >\n    Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1  <\/a>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n                <div class=\"col mb-3 mb-lg-4 mb-xxl-5\" data-index=\"3\">\n            <div class=\"comp-blog-card comp-blog-card--default wow fadeIn\" data-wow-delay=\"0.4s\">\n    <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/lets-talk-elder-mediation\/\" class=\"comp-blog-card__img\">\n      <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img-fluid\" src=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/lets-talk-elder-mediation-768x512.jpg\" alt=\"Let&#8217;s Talk Elder Support and Mediation\">\n    <\/a>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__content balance-elements\">\n              <p class=\"tag-line\">h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i<span class=\"d-inline-block mx-2\">.<\/span>C\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<span class=\"d-inline-block mx-2\">.<\/span>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i<\/p>\n      \n      <h4><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/lets-talk-elder-mediation\/\">Let&#039;s Talk H\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 H\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i<\/a><\/h4>\n\n              <div class=\"d-none d-lg-block\">\n          <p>Let&#039;s Talk gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean quan.<\/p>\n        <\/div>\n          <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"comp-blog-card__link\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/lets-talk-elder-mediation\/\"     class=\"comp-button comp-button--default\"\n     tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"       >\n    Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1  <\/a>\n    <\/div>\n  <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n        <\/div><div class=\"alm-btn-wrap\" data-rel=\"ajax-load-more\"><button class=\"alm-load-more-btn\" type=\"button\">T\u1ea3i th\u00eam<\/button><\/div><div class=\"alm-no-results\" style=\"display: none;\">C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. 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