{"id":33239,"date":"2026-10-30T13:58:59","date_gmt":"2026-10-30T02:58:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/?p=33239"},"modified":"2026-10-30T16:19:47","modified_gmt":"2026-10-30T05:19:47","slug":"what-if-the-helpers-are-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/what-if-the-helpers-are-us\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec sao?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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V\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u00e1ng M\u01b0\u1eddi, Relationships Australia NSW \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t \u0111\u1ed9ng chi\u1ebfn d\u1ecbch "K\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7" cho Th\u00e1ng S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe T\u00e2m th\u1ea7n. nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u qu\u1ed1c gia<\/a> M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t cho th\u1ea5y c\u1ee9 s\u00e1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ho\u1eb7c r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean trong th\u00e1ng v\u1eeba qua. Con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi h\u01a1n ba tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u01b0 s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t cho bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Th\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai trong ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

\u0110\u1ea7u th\u00e1ng, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/a> Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1o bu\u1ed9c ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i Sam Wood, m\u00e0 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng cho bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra sau c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u x\u00ed h\u01a1n. Gi\u1eefa th\u00e1ng 10, m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ecb s\u0129 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng hai b\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng li\u00ean bang n\u00ean b\u1ecb "x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 n\u00e9m \u0111\u00e1 gi\u1eefa qu\u1ea3ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng", v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd, Anne Aly, sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i<\/a> B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 19 l\u1eddi \u0111e d\u1ecda gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecb s\u0129 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Helen Haines. b\u1ecb xe h\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2m<\/a> b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng khu v\u1ef1c b\u1ea7u c\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 \u1edf Wangaratta, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t n\u1eb7ng.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

C\u0169ng trong th\u00e1ng n\u00e0y, C\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t Li\u00ean bang \u00dac \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1o c\u00e1o v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u1ee7y ban qu\u1ed1c h\u1ed9i.<\/a> tr\u1ebb em nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i <\/span>11<\/span> Gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang b\u1ecb c\u1ef1c \u0111oan h\u00f3a tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ea5t h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0ng n\u0103m, nay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n ra "ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y". C\u00e1c quan ch\u1ee9c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 "th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng" g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1.<\/span>
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S\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp. S\u1ef1 chia r\u1ebd. S\u1ef1 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u00e1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang hi\u1ebfm khi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp, h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda. Khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 c\u00e0ng r\u00fat lui, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.
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\u201cKhi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp, h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda. Khi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 c\u00e0ng r\u00fat lui, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n h\u01a1n.\u201d
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C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Fred Rogers, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb em ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9.<\/a> M\u1ed7i khi \u00f4ng th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n tin, \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u00e3y t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e1ng n\u00e0y. T\u1ea1i Brisbane., M\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u0103n t\u00ecm kho b\u00e1u v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t.<\/a> V\u00ec v\u1eady, 250 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn cho c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t, l\u00ednh c\u1ee9u h\u1ecfa v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n. T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c phi l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn n\u00e0y ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y t\u1eed t\u1ebf<\/a> T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0y \u0111ang k\u00eau g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n \u00dac chung tay gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 10 tri\u1ec7u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc Ng\u00e0y Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi T\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 13 th\u00e1ng 11. V\u00e0 sau khi Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Haines b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i th\u1eafp n\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 h\u01a1n 140.000 \u0111\u00f4 la \u00dac \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u00ean g\u00f3p cho t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Save the Children \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1edb b\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>

M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Fred Rogers \u0111ang an \u1ee7i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang quan s\u00e1t t\u1eeb xa. V\u1eady n\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e9p l\u1ea1i Th\u00e1ng S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe T\u00e2m th\u1ea7n: \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady r\u1ed3i. Khi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n hay b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111a khoa.<\/span><\/p>

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh l\u1eddi l\u1ebd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng qua \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng trong khu chung c\u01b0 n\u01a1i h\u1ecd sinh s\u1ed1ng "tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi", mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 "m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n". M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi khi n\u1ea5u \u0103n cho sinh vi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u00dac.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201c\u00d4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n an \u1ee7i l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1edbt c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n trong m\u00f9a gi\u1ea3i AFL, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng nhau xem b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y hi\u1ebfm khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a tin, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua tin nh\u1eafn g\u1eedi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 im l\u1eb7ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng m\u1eddi v\u00e0o nh\u00e0, cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn n\u1ea3y sinh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng k\u00e8m theo s\u1ef1 khinh mi\u1ec7t. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.<\/p>

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 9% t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f4i khi, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 vun \u0111\u1eafp.<\/p>

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Th\u00e1ng S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe T\u00e2m th\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng nhu c\u1ea7u k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u00e1ng 11 \u0111\u1ebfn, h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y \u0111i d\u1ea1o. H\u00e3y m\u1eddi ai \u0111\u00f3 u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n m\u00e3i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1edbm. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n \u1edf nh\u00e0, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap t\u1eeb c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

Th\u00e1ng M\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp, chia r\u1ebd v\u00e0 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n cho s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. R\u1ed3i h\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

Elisabeth Shaw l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Relationships Australia NSW.<\/i>\u00a0N\u1ebfu b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n lo ng\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e2y n\u00f3ng Lifeline: 13 11 14. 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732. T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Relationships Australia: 1300 364 277<\/i>.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Khi s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gia t\u0103ng, t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang lan r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh to l\u1edbn t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Elisabeth Shaw kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 vai tr\u00f2 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":33358,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33239","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","relationship-couples","relationship-families","relationship-individuals","focus-communication","focus-conflict","focus-domestic-violence","focus-friendships","focus-mental-health"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33239","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33239"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33239\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33359,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33239\/revisions\/33359"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}