{"id":3864,"date":"2022-11-08T13:44:36","date_gmt":"2022-11-08T02:44:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/how-to-spot-cheater\/"},"modified":"2025-04-24T15:08:51","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T05:08:51","slug":"how-to-spot-cheater","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/how-to-spot-cheater\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i trong 3 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3864\" class=\"elementor elementor-3864\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-126dc8a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"126dc8a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4d7330f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4d7330f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6 class=\"p1\">H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u1edf b\u00ean ch\u00fang ta trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e3i m\u00ecn c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng \u2013 ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00f3 th\u00eam nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb gian l\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng?<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2e03686b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2e03686b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi sao n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 c\u1ea7u pha l\u00ea c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngay t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p nhau thay v\u00ec qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u? Ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm \u2013 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1c s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n xem x\u00e9t li\u1ec7u ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c hay t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn gian l\u1eadn, ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 c\u1edd \u0111\u1ecf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3n th\u1ecb n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, thay v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta hy v\u1ecdng h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c81cef9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4c81cef9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u01a1i quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n v\u1edbi ranh gi\u1edbi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng hy v\u1ecdng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t khi b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/find-a-genuine-connection-dating-apps\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">c\u1ea3nh h\u1eb9n h\u00f2<\/a>? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 cao khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13500ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"13500ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb gian l\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1111\/pere.12052\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u0103m 2014 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Brigham Young<\/a> g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c &#039;\u0111o\u00e1n&#039; xem ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o hay kh\u00f4ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng tin c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng su\u00f4n s\u1ebb v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. H\u00e3y c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 c\u1edd \u0111\u1ecf, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d2e0a9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1d2e0a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Nh\u1eadn ra khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu &#039;k\u1ebb l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o&#039; c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gian l\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 &#039;<a href=\"\/vi\/blog\/can-you-have-healthy-relationship-with-narcissist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 \u00e1i<\/a>&#039;. C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169, c\u00f3 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i l\u1edbn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u01a1i theo lu\u1eadt, v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i hay h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fa v\u1ecb, th\u00f4ng minh, \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n nghe. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi d\u01b0\u1edbi g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 k\u1ebb th\u1eafng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p khi gian l\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u00edch s\u1ef1 ng\u00e2y ng\u1ea5t, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 - nh\u01b0ng khi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y k\u1ebft th\u00fac, h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, khao kh\u00e1t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea ti\u1ebfp theo v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a6a72de elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a6a72de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe, quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, trung th\u1ef1c, \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, nh\u01b0ng h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 qua c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 chu \u0111\u00e1o, \u00e2n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng? <br \/>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xin l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf v\u00e0o ph\u00fat cu\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay ph\u1edbt l\u1edd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng khi b\u1ea1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? H\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp thu hay ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7?<\/li>\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u00e2u d\u00e0i?<\/li>\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>H\u1ecd c\u00f3 chu \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9bfc3c0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9bfc3c0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o l\u1ecbch s\u1eed gian l\u1eadn trong ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eebng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c cho th\u1ea5y ti\u1ec1n s\u1eed gian l\u1eadn trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y, con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy t\u1eafc chung n\u00e0o v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gian l\u1eadn m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-32ec470 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"32ec470\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n tin v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Theo c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, Esther Perel,\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79c613c e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"79c613c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5b90171 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5b90171\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61d93a36 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"61d93a36\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-610ca3e6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"610ca3e6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>\u00a0\u201cC\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh \u00edt li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ham mu\u1ed1n: mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd, mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng.\u201d<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-523b409d e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"523b409d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3161944b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3161944b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a Esther, ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khao kh\u00e1t, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi, gian l\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p><p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c7e0e20 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7c7e0e20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201cch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd\u201d<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1eadt h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn khi ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb gian l\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh \u201cch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 h\u1ecd\u201d, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. H\u00e3y r\u1ea5t trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i ch\u01b0a, v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi gian l\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-25c66ba e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"25c66ba\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e33943d elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"e33943d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-32e4d2d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"32e4d2d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 Australia NSW c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n cho c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, bao g\u1ed3m <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/how-to-survive-infidelity\/\">ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh<\/a>. <a href=\"\/vi\/contact-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Li\u00ean h\u1ec7 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i<\/a> \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u1ebd th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 c\u1ea7u pha l\u00ea c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p nhau thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn sau n\u00e0y?<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":559,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","relationship-individuals","focus-singles-dating"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3864"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27072,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3864\/revisions\/27072"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/559"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}