{"id":3879,"date":"2022-11-08T13:44:53","date_gmt":"2022-11-08T02:44:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/signs-being-too-nice\/"},"modified":"2025-04-24T14:56:47","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T04:56:47","slug":"signs-being-too-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/signs-being-too-nice\/","title":{"rendered":"5 D\u1ea5u Hi\u1ec7u B\u1ea1n \u0110ang Qu\u00e1 T\u1ed1t"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3879\" class=\"elementor elementor-3879\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6dd5efdd e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"6dd5efdd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e866bf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7e866bf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6 class=\"p1\">Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nghi ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0o l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb9p hay ch\u01b0a \u2013 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4644effe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4644effe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3. L\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 t\u1eeb bi. Nh\u01b0ng khi m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-25b7f7b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"25b7f7b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t?<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, m\u00e1u th\u1ecbt, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1eed t\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00fang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, qu\u00e1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m l\u00f3t c\u1eeda ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebb l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean tr\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng. S\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Qu\u00e1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38bb993 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"38bb993\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ranh gi\u1edbi t\u1eeb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p sang l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p? C\u00f3 n\u0103m \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd.<\/p>\n<h3>1. D\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau<\/h3>\n<p>Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t, nhu c\u1ea7u, k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t n\u00e0o trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00f3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h3>\n<p>Tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 c\u1edd \u0111\u1ecf.\u00a0<span style=\"text-align: var(--text-align);background-color: var(--bs-body-bg);color: var(--bs-body-color);font-family: var(--e-global-typography-primary-font-family);font-size: var(--global-font-size-body-2);font-weight: var(--global-font-weight-body)\">Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd cho ph\u00e9p nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra ho\u1eb7c x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>3. Nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h3>\n<p>M\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u1ecf qua sau khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch du l\u1ecbch hay s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n<h3>4. \u01afu ti\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n<p>Tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea1nh tranh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<h3>5. S\u1ee3 l\u00e0m tr\u00f2n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/h3>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1ee3 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bd37c59 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bd37c59\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xoay chuy\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf<\/h2>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u2013 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u2013 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen tr\u00ean \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1eebng xin l\u1ed7i (ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3).<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ba g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<h3>1. \u0110\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h3>\n<p>\u0110\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi 3D. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Xem x\u00e9t l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf<\/h3>\n<p>Xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong khi h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n<h3>3. D\u00e1m qu\u1eady ph\u00e1<\/h3>\n<p>\u0110\u00f4i khi g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>Lu\u00f4n thu\u1eadn theo m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn thay th\u1ebf th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u00edch th\u00fa \u2013 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u khi \u1edf g\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e1c756 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7e1c756\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-741976f elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"741976f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6eb440 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e6eb440\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h6>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00f4ng tin b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/support\/services\/individual-counselling\/\">d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp<\/a> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p c\u1ea3 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/contact-us\/\">Li\u00ean l\u1ea1c<\/a> \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n 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