{"id":8407,"date":"2024-05-17T11:05:10","date_gmt":"2024-05-17T01:05:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/?p=8407"},"modified":"2025-04-15T16:46:06","modified_gmt":"2025-04-15T06:46:06","slug":"partner-and-i-disagree-about-having-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/partner-and-i-disagree-about-having-children\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con: Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0a con c\u00e1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn xung quanh con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u00e1c cam k\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u1edf tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t trang. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra khi v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Li\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch n\u00e0y khi s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 cao?<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo h\u1ee3p l\u00fd trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cam k\u1ebft n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu n\u00e0o, th\u1eadt c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng khi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh h\u01a1i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i vai tr\u00f2 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng theo quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y coi vi\u1ec7c sinh s\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qua r\u1ed3i. Theo Vi\u1ec7n Y t\u1ebf v\u00e0 Ph\u00fac l\u1ee3i Australia, t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 sinh n\u0103m 2020 l\u00e0 56 ca sinh tr\u00ean 1.000 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/a>, gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n h\u00e0ng n\u0103m k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2010, khi t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 sinh l\u00e0 64 ca sinh tr\u00ean 1.000 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 con mu\u1ed9n h\u01a1n, v\u00ec th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 du l\u1ecbch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ngang b\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u201can c\u01b0 l\u1ea1c nghi\u1ec7p\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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C\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1\u00a0<\/h2>

\u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i, h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 sinh h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c sinh con, v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, khi h\u1ecd g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i 30, nhu c\u1ea7u sinh h\u1ecdc th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u mang thai tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u201ch\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian\u201d. N\u1ebfu \u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/a>, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kh\u00e1c, y\u00eau v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng sinh con hay kh\u00f4ng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng d\u00f2ng th\u1eddi gian, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cb\u1ed1 gi\u00e0\u201d v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n.\u00a0<\/p>

C\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb khi c\u00f3 con \u1edf nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a, v\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111ang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i \u0111ang tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc.\u00a0<\/p>

Trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con l\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7 \u2013 th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00e0 c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0o tay gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i ch\u01a1i h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 sau khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 ti\u1ebfp theo s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0. Trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 sinh s\u1ea3n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t trong quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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\u0110i\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00e1c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con\u00a0<\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 hy sinh \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.\u00a0<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 con khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o sau n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd y\u00eau ch\u00fang v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eb7p tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c, cha ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i \u00f4m con theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111en.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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C\u00e1c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con\u00a0\u00a0<\/h2>

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf tr\u00ean <\/span>c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng xu khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con v\u1edbi nhau<\/span><\/a>, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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H\u00e3y trung th\u1ef1c<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>
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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con, <\/span>\u0111\u1eebng<\/span> \u1ea9n n\u00f3 \u0111i. b\u00ean trong <\/span>giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u<\/span> c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t <\/span>m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7,<\/span> b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u01a1i n\u00f3 xu\u1ed1ng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00f3 <\/span>g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span>. Cho c\u1ea3 hai <\/span>v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span>, hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec <\/span>s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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L\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn<\/span> <\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con, h\u00e3y nghi\u00eam t\u00fac th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u00dac NSW, Elisabeth Shaw, c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u201cquay l\u1ea1i\u201d ho\u1eb7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh. <\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f4 n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. <\/span> <\/span><\/p>

\u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00edch c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. <\/span><\/p>

\u201cT\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cho \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ed5i 30 v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 to l\u1edbn.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1edfi m\u1edf<\/span>\u00a0<\/h3>

Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con voi trong ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. Elisabeth khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>

C\u00f4 n\u00f3i: \u201cS\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i l\u1ea5p l\u1eedng v\u00e0 b\u1ebf t\u1eafc.<\/span><\/p>

\u201cTrong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, mong mu\u1ed1n h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1ee3c theo m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec v\u1eady h\u00e3y n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, "b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y?"<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m<\/span> n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec <\/span>n\u00f3<\/span>'S<\/span> s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n <\/span>kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3<\/span> tr\u1ea3i qua cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. <\/span>Trong k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i<\/span>n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/span>, th\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f2n h\u01a1n<\/span> ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/span>.<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng\u00a0<\/h3>

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nghi ng\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1eafc n\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n v\u00ec s\u1ef1 hy sinh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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m<\/span>ake k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch thay th\u1ebf v\u1edbi nhau<\/span><\/span>
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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n <\/span>thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp<\/span> nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau kh\u00e1c? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con, \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Y\u00eau v\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cam k\u1ebft c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con, th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. S\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf, trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span> N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng <\/span>c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn xung quanh con c\u00e1i \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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D\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 & H\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o li\u00ean quan<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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\n \n \"Couples\n <\/a>\n\n
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t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n.<\/span>c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i.<\/span>S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/span>LGBTQIA+<\/p>\n \n

T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i<\/a><\/h4>\n\n
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C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n th\u00eam s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n C\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i t\u1ea1i RANSW cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m, v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n\n

\n \n Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 <\/a>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n.<\/span>c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/span>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i.<\/span>LGBTQIA+<\/p>\n \n

T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/a><\/h4>\n\n
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Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n th\u00eam s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n\n

\n \n Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 <\/a>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n
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C\u00e1c kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn.<\/span>c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i.<\/span>Xung \u0111\u1ed9t<\/p>\n \n

k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i<\/a><\/h4>\n\n
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Trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a. Kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n\n

\n \n Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 <\/a>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>