{"id":8693,"date":"2022-11-30T14:44:49","date_gmt":"2022-11-30T03:44:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/?p=8693"},"modified":"2025-04-24T14:27:11","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T04:27:11","slug":"how-divorce-affects-teenagers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/blog\/how-divorce-affects-teenagers\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 thanh ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ly th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ly h\u00f4n"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ly th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t sau khi cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ly h\u00f4n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y<\/a> r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em t\u1eeb c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ly t\u00e1n c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 m\u1eafc c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng cao g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i.<\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Khi cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb em ly h\u00f4n v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n \u2013 bao g\u1ed3m t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb em, c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ebb em, c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t cao v\u00e0 c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb em.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c quan tr\u1ecdng cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean (\u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 18-25) c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang ly th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n khi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ly h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi gi\u00fap con \u1edf tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ly th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ly d\u1ecb?<\/p>\n

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Nh\u00ecn b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn<\/span><\/h2>\n

B\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch 'T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m' \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a con \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c thanh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac x\u1ea3y ra sau cu\u1ed9c ly h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea9n sau v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u1ed9c c\u1eb1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean n\u00f3i chung l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u1ea1o d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may, ly th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u0169ng m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n khi ly th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ly h\u00f4n. N\u00e2ng cao tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n, giao d\u1ecbch ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u00f2ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi ma t\u00fay v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 trong vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi cho ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt. S\u1ef1 tan v\u1ee1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sai l\u1ec7ch c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n \u2013 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t. H\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong th\u1eddi gian ly th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t, th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

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Tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn h\u01a1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/span> trong th\u1eddi gian ly h\u00f4n<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Khi cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ti\u00eau hao b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a ra, kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ee9a con l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a em c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a em n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01a1n. Gi\u00fap h\u1ecd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd trong khi t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c ly th\u00e2n\u00a0<\/h2>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 cha m\u1eb9 ly h\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111au bu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong khi \u01b0u ti\u00ean cho con c\u00e1i - b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ch\u00fang \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o - trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb1ng sau vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c ly th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n

D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n chia tay s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb em, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. L\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ch\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch. C\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda n\u00e0o, tham gia v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c xung \u0111\u1ed9t, tham gia b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn n\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3<\/h3>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c thanh ni\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4n ngoan h\u01a1n tu\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m 'ng\u01b0\u1eddi an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n' cho cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tinh th\u1ea7n to l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y nguy hi\u1ec3m cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o v\u00e0 tr\u1ea5n an h\u1ecd. Tr\u00e1nh d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

\u1ed4n \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a<\/h3>\n

C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u00e1nh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1nh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng \u00edt b\u1ecb gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb Vi\u1ec7n Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u Gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00dac cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n<\/a>. Trong khi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 hai gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00edt qua l\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i linh ho\u1ea1t \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1eef li\u00ean l\u1ea1c<\/h3>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u00e0u nh\u00e0u v\u00e0 \u201csao c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c thanh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o ph\u00fac l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 tr\u1ea5n an quan tr\u1ecdng. Hai trong ba thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o<\/a> v\u00ec v\u1eady, trong khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u0169 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n<\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c thanh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee9u b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi bu\u1ed3n th\u00eam b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb gi\u00fap h\u1ecd t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ebb em, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb g\u00f2 b\u00f3 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0\/ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trung th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 h\u1ecd kh\u1ecfi xung \u0111\u1ed9t<\/h3>\n

Gi\u1eef xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kia \u1edf m\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t li\u00ean minh \u0111\u1ed3ng cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n. Khi xung \u0111\u1ed9t cao, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i song song h\u01a1n, trong \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu l\u1eabn nhau khi con c\u00e1i d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ly th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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\u0110\u1eb1ng sau v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i "T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m" \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c thanh ni\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":11018,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8693","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","relationship-couples","relationship-families","focus-divorce-separation","focus-parenting"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8693","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8693"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8693\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26962,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8693\/revisions\/26962"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11018"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8693"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8693"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.relationshipsnsw.org.au\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8693"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}