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C\u00f3 con l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, mang \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n. Trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c cao nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t. V\u00e0 trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00edt th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ec7c em b\u00e9 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i n\u00e9n c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i khi c\u00f3 con.<\/span><\/h6>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Khi Yvonne v\u00e0 Mark m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi, h\u1ecd nh\u1edb ph\u00e1o hoa bay kh\u1eafp ph\u00f2ng.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cAnh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u,\u201d Yvonne nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i. \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a anh ta.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cT\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ng\u00f4 ngh\u00ea v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00eau ch\u1ecdc ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u1edf h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o,\u201d Mark c\u01b0\u1eddi.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n b\u1edfi nhau v\u00e0 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed9n, v\u1eabn d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c giao l\u01b0u v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y \u0111ua nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean nhau.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Tua nhanh 19 th\u00e1ng, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Yvonne v\u00e0 Mark r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. C\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3 n\u1ea3y l\u1eeda, th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y im l\u1eb7ng.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Yvonne c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1n th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap c\u00f4 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u00fai c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 gi\u1eb7t gi\u0169 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc gh\u1ebf d\u00e0i y\u00eau qu\u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u00f4.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Mark \u0111ang l\u00e0m th\u00eam gi\u1edd t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, anh v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u1edbi c\u1ea3 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng khi anh \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u201cVonnie d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i sau khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 Maddie. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng,\u201d Mark n\u00f3i. \u201cVonnie l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 Vonnie gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n. S\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb g\u00ec l\u00e0 n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn sau c\u00f9ng.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cC\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng,\u201d Yvonne tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, \u201cb\u1edfi v\u00ec sau khi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c Maddie v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u1ea5u b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e2y n\u00e0o cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 v\u00e2ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Yvonne v\u00e0 Mark kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 cao c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 'ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i' sang 'v\u00e0 em b\u00e9 l\u00ean ba'. m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u<\/a> cho th\u1ea5y 20-59% c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong 18 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean sau khi sinh con.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7n Gottman<\/a> \u1edf Seattle ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng trong v\u00f2ng ba n\u0103m sau khi sinh con, kho\u1ea3ng hai ph\u1ea7n ba s\u1ed1 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng cho bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat. Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng trong v\u00f2ng 5 n\u0103m k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00f2ng ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, 13% cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng ly h\u00f4n.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi\u00a0<\/h2>\n

Duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 sau khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 sinh con t\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t. Thi\u1ebfu ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i h\u01a1n, \u00edt ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con d\u1ed1c tr\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1ee3t v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u1edbi nhau, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 m\u1edbi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c nhau \u2013 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. Trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, th\u00ec c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt. \u0110\u00e0m ph\u00e1n v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec3m chung, t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/a> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo. M\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n

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C\u00f9ng nhau ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u00a0<\/h2>\n

Ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1n tu\u1ea7n t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, Yvonne v\u00e0 Mark \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 g\u00e2y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ch\u00ednh m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh mang l\u1ea1i \u2013 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean nhau v\u00e0 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang mong \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cNh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam h\u1eb9n h\u00f2,\u201d Yvonne ch\u00e2m bi\u1ebfm. \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 hoa m\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e0u sushi \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai gi\u1edd.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

H\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t ng\u00e2n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 hai y\u00ean t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 chi ph\u00ed h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft gi\u1eef cho c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n di\u1ec5n ra b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cC\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a 'b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i' v\u00e0 Vonnie \u0111i ng\u1ee7 trong khi Maddie v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean nhau t\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt c\u00f9ng nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t nghi th\u1ee9c vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 duy tr\u00ec.\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c theo nh\u00f3m,\u201d Mark t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1.<\/p>\n

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